The Meaning of Happiness
Yesterday I asked what happiness means to you.
Today, in the spirit of understanding one another, I am going to tell you what the word happiness means to me.
What is happiness?
The dictionary calls it an emotion. I think the way we categorize emotions tends to deflate them and make them appear flat with only one way to look at them instead of well-rounded and full of depth. It’s along the lines of the same mistaken assumption humans made about the shape of the earth just a few centuries ago. We like to pretend we are certain about things. But happiness cannot be boxed or bottled, and it has a fullness to it to which a dictionary definition cannot begin to do justice.
It’s more than just a feeling of joy or satisfaction. It’s more than a feeling. It is more than chemical. More than religious fervor. And more important than I dared imagine.
Here are a few thoughts I would add to the meaning of it:
Happiness is a state of being and a way of seeing. It engages all the senses and draws out a response of true-heartedness.
It has the strength to pursue a purpose, and energy to coexist with heartbreak.
The inability of someone else to accept it does not in fact quench it.
Happiness is a field of freedom and a fortress of hope.
Happiness is the ability to say “My path is good and I am worthy to walk it.”
If I am not dwelling in happiness, my best option is to pursue it, because anything else is imprisonment, and no one thrives in that environment. It is a high priority for health and spirit.
One final thought:
Happiness is possible (no matter what!) It is a bare necessity for me to live with that confidence, even when it takes a leap of faith. Here's to all of us doing our best!
Love,
Jamie
The Great Happiness Chase! Day 2.